The Power of Integrity in Private

The Power of Integrity in Private | Noble Wise Men Episode 2

Becoming a Noble Wise Man – Episode 2 Recap

We live in a world that celebrates image — but God looks at character. And not just any character, but the kind that holds steady when no one else is watching. That’s what this week’s episode of The Noble Wise Men Podcast is all about: Integrity in Private.

If Episode 1 reminded us that becoming a noble man starts with surrender and identity in Christ, Episode 2 challenges us to live that identity out behind closed doors. Because here’s the truth: If a man can’t be trusted alone, he can’t be trusted at all.

What Is Integrity, Really?

Integrity isn’t just honesty. It’s being the same person in secret that you are in public. It's the thread that weaves every other godly quality together. Without it, gifts can be misused, and talents can serve the wrong kingdom.

“Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.” – Proverbs 10:9 (ESV)

One powerful example of integrity can be found in the Japanese concept of Omotenashi; the outward presentation of oneself with nothing to hide.

Omote (表): This refers to the public face.

Nashi (無し): This means nothing or without.

It is a form of sincere hospitality that’s selfless, transparent, and done with no expectation of reward. Whether in business, relationships, or our walk with God — doing the right thing because it’s right is what integrity looks like.

Integrity is what you do when no one is watching.

Why Private Integrity Matters

It’s easy to look the part. But the real test of character happens in private — when no one’s checking your browser history, when there’s no spotlight, no applause. That’s where habits are formed, addictions begin or end, and where victory is often born in silence.

Jesus modeled this perfectly. Before He died on the cross for the world, He surrendered in the quiet, crushing agony of the Garden of Gethsemane.

“Your private devotional life is more important than your Sunday morning worship.”— a word from my Pastor this week

“But you, when you pray, go into your room… your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.” – Matthew 6:6 (NKJV)

Private integrity leads to public fruitfulness. Always.

How to Build Integrity in Private

• Daily confession and repentance — Keep your heart clean before God.

• Establish quiet-time disciplines — Scripture, prayer, fasting.

• Set up accountability — Find someone who asks the hard questions.

• Crush compromise early — Small sins grow into strongholds if ignored.

• Remember: No one ever plans to become an addict, a liar, or a fraud. It begins with the little things. Trample them now.

“Kill hidden sin before it kills your calling.”

Final Encouragement

If you’re fighting silent battles — you’re not alone. Every godly man has faced the same. But integrity isn’t about perfection — it’s about the fight to be faithful.

I’ve seen the greatest growth in my walk with Christ after surrounding myself with other men who were chasing after Him, too. Not perfect men — but honest, humble ones.

We challenge each other, pray for each other, and walk together in the light.

“If we walk in the light… the blood of Jesus cleanses us from all sin.” – 1 John 1:7 (ESV) If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. - 1 John 1:8 (ESV) "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." - 1 John 1:9 (ESV)

This Week’s Challenge:

• What’s one area where your private life needs integrity?

• Who could you ask to hold you accountable this week?

• What step will you take today to walk uprightly before God?
  

Coming Up Next:

In two weeks, we’ll be talking about Strength with Humility: A Man’s True Power — and why real strength is never loud or prideful. It’s meek, disciplined, and anchored in Christ. Don’t miss it.

Until then, keep moving forward — and remember:

“The righteous who walks in his integrity— blessed are his children after him.” – Proverbs 20:7 (ESV)

Guys, don’t just look like a Christian. Live with character, even when no one’s watching.